A LITTLE BIT ABOUT ME 

Hi, I'm Tara Wojcichowsky

Identity and Embodiment Mentor

WHY GODDESS EXISTS

 

I believe something deeply, unapologetically true:

 

Every woman deserves to understand what has actually been happening to her —

and how to live differently.

 

Not someday.

Not after she “figures it out.”

Now.

 

Women are carrying an impossible load.

 

Yes, the visible one — the tasks, the schedules, the responsibilities, the logistics of daily life.

But more than that, the invisible emotional weight:

 

The managing.

The anticipating.

The holding it together.

Being the rock everyone else.

The pressure to be calm, capable, grateful, pleasant, resilient.

 

We are praised for surviving it.

Applauded for functioning inside it.

And quietly taught that this is just “how it is.”

 

So we push.

We numb.

We adapt.

 

We go to therapy.

We read the books.

We learn the language of boundaries, self-care, mindset, healing.

 

And still — for so many women — nothing actually changes.

 

The insight is there.

The awareness is there.

But the body doesn’t relax.

Life doesn’t feel lighter.

The mental load doesn’t lift.

 

We are told to “fill our cup first"

without ever being shown what that actually means — or how to fill it.

So now we feel guilty that we're walking around with an empty cup with no idea how to fill it.

 

Eventually, something gives.

 

We burn out.

We shut down.

We explode.

We’re labeled too emotional, too much, dramatic, ungrateful, difficult, over reacting.

 

When the truth is we were never taught how.

 

HOW TO:

 

Feel without judging ourselves

 

Think without tearing ourselves down

 

Rest without guilt

 

Trust our own decisions

 

Stop holding everything together alone

 

Want more without believing something is wrong with us

 

Goddess exists to teach what should have be taught all along.

 

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Why I Teach This

 

I don’t teach from theory.

 

I teach from lived experience.

 

I know this landscape intimately — not as a concept, but as real life.

 

I lived inside the pressure.

The mental noise.

The constant responsibility.

The feeling that everyone else had it figured out and I somehow didn’t.

 

I did the work the way women are told to do it:

I learned.

I analyzed.

I tried to solve my puzzles.

I went to therapy.

I hired mentors.

I attempted to understand why I was the way I was.

 

And still — my body couldn't truly relax.

My mind never stopped.

I couldn't allow myself rest.

Boundaries felt impossible to set and hold.

Relief never lasted.

 

What finally changed my life was not more effort or more insight.

 

It was learning how my thoughts, feelings, and choices are connected - and how to use that in real life.

 

Not perfectly.

Not by pretending everything is fine.

But honestly.

Practically.

in a way I could actually live. 

 

I am the proof that this works — because I understand it, live it, and lead from it.

 

Goddess exists because women deserve more than insight — they deserve real change.

 

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What Goddess Is

 

Goddess is not a self-help program.

 

It is a guided journey to remember your true self — free from the chaos, pressure, judgment, and unconscious standards you were never meant to carry.

 

This work doesn’t ask you to try harder or fix yourself.

 

It meets you exactly where you are —

and supports you in rising out of what has been weighing you down.

 

Because there is nothing wrong with you.

 

There never was.